Never Been Loved

If you are interested in someone, you should never mention that you have never been in a relationship before, Sindy advised.

Sook-Fun nodded, agreeing that it is a big no-no, and that she would never date anyone who has never been in a relationship before. I realized many people view this as undesirable.

Why? Because of lack of experience?

Perhaps people are afraid that if you’ve never been in any relationship before, if you’ve never been loved before, then there must something seriously wrong with you! They think that somewhere, somehow there is a potential problem ahead. So the easy way out is to stay clear and not find out?!

But on the other hand, perhaps undiscovered and untainted love is the purest form of love?

Perhaps the unloved individual has a warmer heart and even more love to give away than one who has had multiple failed relationships?

Is it such a liability to disclose our lack of past relationships?

Do you need a past relationship to make a new one?

Podium Comeback

Dressed up again in my fabulous Daniel Henry's KYLIE t-shirt, I made my second appearance at Marketplace Saturday nite with Jaslene, Tricia and Sook Fun. The dancefloor was empty when we arrived, so we were too shy to dance, but within 30 minutes it was packed! Can only jump up and down on the same spot! We stood too near the front bit of the dancefloor and the white smoky spray almost made us all suffocate. OMG! They kept spraying it.... that's when I said enough is enough! I emerged from the white mist and rose on the high podium (drama! drama!), scanned the dancefloor for a moment before proceeding with my performance! Yes, the former Liquid podium diva has made a comeback! Yeah! It feels good to be back on stage.... OMG! It's been 5 years since I stepped on stage!

Spotted Daniel Henry, Geri and Les, and also got to meet with Jaslene's "brothers", Jin and Queerrant. No one else from the brotherhood went that nite, but got intro to a few of the brothers: Apollo D, Bunny and Cheryl (she's not exactly a brother la) on New Year's Day at Midvalley with Faye.

Happy New Year!

I Resolve ... I Resolve ...

Looking back, I made 15 New Year resolutions early this year. None achieved. Phuh~

So what's for 2009? Only time will tell ...

Dear Mrs. JL

It seems that you were upset that we took photos with your dear husband. We overheard your conversation, and from the way JL spoke, it sounded like you were unhappy and like you demanded an explanation from him. And I'd guess that by now, you're also closely monitoring the numerous comments made by us about your husband and his photos in facebook. But you see, these aren't disparaging remarks about him. On the contrary, we're only adoring him and complimenting him on his hunkylicious looks and attractive built. Is that a crime?

Lady, that is no way to treat your delicious husband. He doesn't need anyone nagging or screaming at him. He doesn't need a wife who is possesive, who micromanages what he can do and what he can't do. On the other hand, he needs someone who can cook, who can drive and who can be independent to enhance his life, all of which you've failed to deliver.

Come on! You should be proud to have been married to JL, and bore his child. You've won the battle! In contrast, we only get to see him once a week, and dream about him the rest of the week. There is nothing we can do to jeopardise your position. Only you can make it fail. And if you do, you can be sure we'll pounce on him.

Dear JL