Never Too Careful

In the recent sex DVD scandal involving a senior cabinet minister, I noticed that majority of people were critical of the morals of the minister. But I think most importantly the main issue here that everyone should be concerned about is the invasion of privacy, the fact that cameras were installed in a hotel room and the videos were captured. It could happen to anyone of us. Instead, we, pious Malaysians felt that the extra-marital affair was a bigger issue. As expected, Malaysians were so quick to condemn the minister, as if we are all angels. Yes, shame on him for having sex with another woman. But come on, give the man a break. He’s only human. Everyone of us have a little weakness or secret. Quite a handful of married men I know have had sex with a prostitute, or have had extramarital affair. I am certain that most men probably have cheated on their wives at least once in their lifetime. My view

As gay men, we should also exercise extra care the next time we:

• Have webcam sex – you’ll never know if the other person is recording your hot sessions.
• Go over to another guy’s place for sex after chatting at Gay.com.
• Attend a sex party in a hotel room or at someone’s place.
• Visit our local gay sauna – perhaps there are “hidden cameras” in the private rooms or activity areas (too dark? There’re night vision cameras you know!).
• Take a shower or have a quickie with a hot guy at the local pool shower or public toilet.
• Or simply playing with yourself in a hotel room.

Careful, you’re being filmed!!