Strangely enough, I have managed to remain off-radar from members of my family in Facebook for over a year. But the time has come, today: I received a "friend" request from my 19-yo niece.
Not that there were too many revealing information in my facebook profile, but there are things that I'd like to keep private from family. And with all those privacy breaches that I have mentioned in my preceding post, you cannot be 100% certain that you have control over what items or photos can be seen. Plus you can't control what people write on your wall!
Photos tell a lot. About the kind of activities you do, the friends you hang out with, about how you behave (I admit I still very much behave immaturely), how daggy your clothes are, and eventually confirming your sexuality.
One can very easily deduce your sexuality by just looking at your "friends" list, your friends' photos, and your own photos! Not that they didn't already guessed it in the first place, but it's another thing to be letting family members confirming their suspicions, and seeing so much of your life. Suddenly I feel naked!
And if one family member adds you, you can be assured the others will follow!
Hmmm... major headache! To accept or not?! Argh!
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6 comments:
Ignore.
Just hang her... Oh! I meant just leave her hanging there ... don't accept and don't ignore :p
Press reject...
once the door is open,
there is no turning back..
emotioneel
Wah! All say reject/ignore. Thanks, I think I am not ready yet.
haha even mine also no relatives~ kekeke
yup~ better not accept
Just pretend nothing happen.... lol
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